Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Another Black Graduate


I am a 57 year old Black man. As a young man I was by most folks opinion CRAZY. But through the years I have mellowed, and I've been truly blessed. I can remember as though it was yesterday. Seventeen years old and standing among thousands of people on Lockhart Road in Hong Kong China. It was at that moment I realized there was a completely different world away from the hood, and from that day on I became Mr. Hyde.


Somehow after a couple of years I met Valerie Day. I say somehow because I did not deserve this woman. But we met, fell in love, and started a family. After 33 years and some bumpy road we are still together. The children are grown, and there are two grandchildren. I have to honestly say that I never thought this day would come.


But I wouldn't do it any other way. I am blessed to have three children that no man or woman could be prouder of. First born is Stephen, then Stephenie, and then Ian.


I've been blessed that my children have never given me or their mother a reason to be ashamed of. No gangs, no drugs (well no heavy drugs), No problems other than the norm for teenagers.


Next month Val and I will be even prouder when the first of three children walks across the stage to receive their diploma.


Ian Hamilton Williams will graduate from the University of Colorado on December 18th 2010, with a Bachelors of Fine Arts in Film.


Ian got his start his first year of high school with the help of director and producer Donnie Betts. Donnie helped Ian win the Oscar Brown Jr scholarship with a short film that was shown at the Starz Film Festival, and The Pan African Film Festival. After a year at Clark Atlanta University, Ian decided to come back home, and enrolled at CU. This past summer Ian released his latest film entitled Mile High (check Youtube). I had hoped he would have taken to the trumpet, but after a few school concerts we all were in agreement that music may not be the way out for Ian.


It didn't bother me though. Young son worked his butt off to graduate early. After many nights of sweating, nose running, convulsing, head aches and more over the dinner table doing homework Ian got it done.


We did it Mommie (Val). We got another young Black man through college. A feat that is damn near impossible these days.


So to Ian I say well done young man. Your Mom and Pops are proud of you, and can't wait for your move to the next level.


And lastly, I love you son. I always knew you could do it, especially when you thought you couldn't. OOh Rah!



Monday, November 22, 2010

America - He's your President for Goodness Sake!




By William Thomas

Posted: Friday, October 1st, 2010


There was a time not so long ago when Americans, regardless of their political stripes, rallied round their president. Once elected, the man who won the White House was no longer viewed as a Republican or Democrat, but the President of the United States . The oath of office was taken, the wagons were circled around the country’s borders and it was America versus the rest of the world with the president of all the people at the helm.

Suddenly President Barack Obama, with the potential to become an exceptional president has become the glaring exception to that unwritten, patriotic rule.


Four days before President Obama’s inauguration, before he officially took charge of the American government, Rush Limbaugh boasted publicly that he hoped the president would fail. Of course, when the president fails the country flounders. Wishing harm upon your country in order to further your own narrow political views is selfish, sinister and a tad treasonous as well.


Subsequently, during his State of the Union address, which is pretty much a pep rally for America , an unknown congressional representative from South Carolina , later identified as Joe Wilson, stopped the show when he called the President of the United States a liar. The president showed great restraint in ignoring this unprecedented insult and carried on with his speech. Speaker Nancy Pelosi was so stunned by the slur, she forgot to jump to her feet while clapping wildly, 30 or 40 times after that.


Last spring, President Obama took his wife Michelle to see a play in New York City and republicans attacked him over the cost of security for the excursion. The president can’t take his wife out to dinner and a show without being scrutinized by the political opposition? As history has proven, a president in a theatre without adequate security is a tragically bad idea. Remember: “Apart from that, Mrs. Lincoln, how did you enjoy the play?”


At some point, the treatment of President Obama went from offensive to ugly and then to downright dangerous.

The health-care debate, which looked more like extreme fighting in a mud pit than a national dialogue, revealed a very vulgar side of America . President Obama’s face appeared on protest signs white-faced and blood-mouthed in a satanic clown image. In other tasteless portrayals, people who disagreed with his position distorted his face to look like Hitler complete with mustache and swastika.

Odd, that burning the flag makes Americans crazy, but depicting the president as a clown and a maniacal fascist is accepted as part of the new rude America .


Maligning the image of the leader of the free world is one thing, putting the president’s life in peril is quite another. More than once, men with guns were videotaped at the health-care rallies where the president spoke. Again, history shows that letting men with guns get within range of a president has not served America well in the past.

And still the “birthers” are out there claiming Barack Obama was not born in the United States , although public documentation proves otherwise. Hawaii is definitely part of the United States , but the Panama Canal Zone where his electoral opponent Senator John McCain was born? Nobody’s sure.


Last month, a 44-year-old woman in Buffalo was quite taken by President Obama when she met him in a chicken wing restaurant called Duff’s. Did she say something about a pleasure and an honour to meet the man or utter encouraging words for the difficult job he is doing? No. Quote: “You’re a hottie with a smokin’ little body.”

Lady, that was the President of the United States you were addressing, not one of the Jonas Brothers! He’s your president for goodness sakes, not the guy driving the Zamboni at “Monster Trucks On Ice.” Maybe next it’ll be, “Take Your President To A Topless Bar Day.”


In President Barack Obama, Americans have a charismatic leader with a good and honest heart. Unlike his predecessor, he’s a very intelligent leader. And unlike that president’s predecessor, he’s a highly moral man.

In President Obama, Americans have the real deal, the whole package and a leader that citizens of almost every country around the world look to with great envy. Given the opportunity, Canadians would trade our leader, hell, most of our leaders for Obama in a heartbeat.


What America has in Obama is a head of state with vitality and insight and youth. Think about it, Barack Obama is a young Nelson Mandela. Mandela was the face of change and charity for all of Africa but he was too old to make it happen. The great things Obama might do for America and the world could go on for decades after he’s out of office.

America, you know not what you have.


The man is being challenged unfairly, characterized with vulgarity and treated with the kind of deep disrespect to which no previous president was subjected. It’s like the day after electing the first black man to be president, thereby electrifying the world with hope and joy, Americans sobered up and decided the bad old days were better.

President Obama may fail but it will not be a Richard Nixon default fraught with larceny and lies. President Obama, given a fair chance, will surely succeed but his triumph will never come with a Bill Clinton caveat – “if only he’d got control of that zipper.”


Please. Give the man a fair, fighting chance. This incivility toward the leader who won over Americans and gave hope to billions of people around the world that their lives could be enhanced by his example, just naturally has to stop.

Believe me, when Americans drive by the White House and see a sign on the lawn that reads: “No shirt. No shoes. No service,” they’ll realize this new national rudeness has gone way, way too far.


OCTOBER 2010 SENIOR LIVING MAGAZINE VANCOUVER & LOWER MAINLAND